Paradigm Xchange: Deep Connection Events and Microdosing Parties

Friday Nights Doing Something Out of The Ordinary

Microdosing Parties. Truffle Tea Mocktails. Deeper Connection Clubbing, Events in Amsterdam & Europe - Beyond the Small Talk

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Picture a night out like this...

You're at a secret location at the heart of Amsterdam, amazing flowy music on the background, you're talking with someone and realise - Holy sh*t, this conversation is actually going DEEPER. You get immersed into it. You are laughing (maybe even crying), dancing freely, sharing stories that matter, playing deep questions games, and drinking delicious healthy and fulfilling drinks (either Microdosing Truffle Mocktail or Non-alcoholic Drinks) that make you feel more YOU, that help you open up your heart more.

No small talk. Go deeper. No trying to shout over crazy intense music. No pretend someone you are not. No waking up the next day with hangover, nor feeling drained from superficial talks - but actually having met people that get it, and get you. Through our beautiful human hearts, the innocence of play as well as creative and sensual explorations, inspired by our Artists friends.

This is what Microdosing Parties

are all about...

Meet Your People. Beyond Small Talk -

We bring some intentionality to the space. Meet people who want more than surface-level chitchat. The kind of conversations where you lose track of time, where you feel seen and heard, where you feel nourished.

Expand your Mind. While You Have Sh*t lots of Fun

Yes, you can have fun AND expand yourself. Leave with feeling inspired, not drained. Make friends who challenge and support you. That you might feel you are a part of a community or a large thing.

Alternatives to Go Out. Hangover Free

For people who want the social vibe beyond just drinking and clubbing. Dance, connect, open up, try new things such as Microdosing mocktails or healthy non-alcoholic drinks - all while staying present and feeling good after.

Take a look on the vibe

What Other People Say

"Definitely exceeded my expectations, was outside my comfort zone but the team and attendees made it comfortable and exciting! I also gained some personal insights to reflect on, looking forward to going again! Thank you all ✨"

Kassim

"As usual, a beautiful experience of expression in a safe and welcoming environment. Leila and Lya's energy are absolutely amazing and it's always an absolute pleasure to share the space with them."

Oliver

"Awesome! Super human connection."

Good organization, oversight, leadership.

Great food, music, etc. Beautiful view of the water."

Steven

"Well organised and a good opening space thanks to Leila and Li."

Ana

Last night's microdosing party was absolutely fantastic! It was the second time I'd been to something like this. Layla, as always, did a fantastic job hosting, and Sara, Adrian, and Bart were amazing again. Lots of great music, dancing, and connecting. A great atmosphere with truly interesting people! I still think back on it with a smile and hope to see all the people I met again in the future!

Steve

"Safe, open, deep connections and great vibes!"

David

How it works

Arrive to the venue, leave your coat and worries. Head to the bar to get your first Microdosing Mocktail (optional), as a delicious alternative to relax, connect, and open up

Head to the group guided rituals and icebreakers (optional). Meet new people. Have some moments of recognition, movements, heart connection, gazing, laugh like a kid. The party has started!

Explore the different creative corners, and join what feels good. Enjoy a good dance with our live DJ; explore the art corner or the sensory food table. Or just allowing the flow to take you for a ride!

What you'll find at our Microdosing parties

Our events and parties are crafted for Deeper Connection...Cozy lighting and candles, carefully picked DJ's that set the vibe bringing you more into your body, and natural connections, creative and sensual activities that get people beyond the "what do you do?" talk.

BASICS

🍹 MICRODOSING MOCKTAILS BAR

Think of it like the social lubricant but better. A small dose of psilocybin truffles mixed into functional biohack-proof drinks. Picture feeling relaxed, open, and genuinely connected.

COOKING

🫂 MEET PEOPLE BEYOND THE SMALL TALK

We bring people together in-person who want as much as you for deeper chats, break free from the rush, and meet people more authentically.

OUTDOOR

🎙️ DANCE FLOOR + LIVE DJ SET

Dance like no one is watching. No talking, barefoot, and however you want. Come and join our Live invited DJ's to dance, move, and flow on the dance floor.

PLATING

❤️ CONNECTION RITUALS

Picture deep question games upon arrival, we facilitate spaces and guided connection exercises and rituals for you to connect organically with others. No pressure on immediately 'knowing' what to do!

🍹 SENSORY FOOD CORNER

Later on explore with your senses, taste (can be blind folded) some healthy and delicious bites in the sensory corner, and invite your whole body to open up for new orgasmic sensations and the mystery.

🎷WORKSHOPS + GUEST ARTISTS

Every party, we invite various Artists to play with and inspire us - from live dance performances and workshop, amazing visionary painters, sound healing journey, contact workshops, massage therapists, and much more..

🎨 ART & CREATIVE SPACE

Paint and sip, join to a collective art work where you'll splash your creativity, draw and create with others with art. Without 'having to make the perfect painting', just to express freely!

Upcoming Microdosing Parties

Pick your vibe. Join our signature Microdosing parties. Discover new fun ways to go out

Microdosing Party: Spring Edition (Amsterdam) - SOLD OUT

Friday, 20th March, 2026

Welcome Spring, rise, and dance like no one is watching. Try fresh spring Truffle Mocktails, meet your tribe.

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Microdosing Dating Edition ❤️(Amsterdam)

Friday, May 1st, 2026

What if you could connect slower and more intentionally (to meet someone)? Join us for an evening to have deeper connections with the a delicious blend of romantic Microdosing Mocktails designed to ease into the body and open the hearts together. With guided dating rituals.

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Microdosing Psychedelic Networking Party (Amsterdam)

2d June, 2026 - Psychedelic Week Amsterdam

Join Amsterdam’s most exciting psychedelic networking party/event, where professionals, academics, entrepreneurs, psychedelic enthusiasts, and like minded explorers come together to expand our knowledge and network in a laid pack networking party on the Psychedelic Week Amsterdam.

Events To Meet People Deeper

Temple of Remembering - A Tantric Gathering (Amsterdam)

March 15, 2026 - Event by Leila & Louelle

A night of human warmth, ancient heart rituals & the sacredness of connection. There is something tender about the heart. It remembers even when we forget. It keeps opening even when we try to protect it. And at some point, all of us long for a place where our heart can simply be held — gently, honestly, lovingly, without masks. Join us to connect deeper with yourself and with each other, through the portal of the heart - not to be pushed open but to breath again together gently.

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The Bucketlist Dinner - Amsterdam

Thursday 26th March, 2026 - Bar Aan de Kade (Amsterdam)

Have you ever shared out loud your craziest and non-sense dreams? Come and have dinner around 10 other strangers while you write and share your bucketlist of things you want to do before you die. Find people who think "where have you been all my life", and leave inspired.

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Microdosing Tea Ceremony with Sound Journey (Amsterdam)

Sunday, 12th April, 2026

You are invited for a Micro-dose (Truffle) Tea Ceremony and a lay-down live Sound Journey (with handpan, etc), on Sunday, April 12 from 11:30-14:00 CET. The event (in English) will happen in a cozy and private studio in Amsterdam.

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Why we started this

We're Lya and Leila, we founded Paradigm Xchange as the NEW NIGHTLIFE to go out and meet people more authentically.

We curate parties, experiences, events and honest spaces where you can be fully yourself.

We both spent years socialising in the 'regular' way: bars, networking events, clubbing.. but feeling something was missing...

After exploring different cultures, traveling around the world, quitting drinking, becoming microdosing therapists, and expanding ourselves, we craved for new alternatives for going out. We realised we don't have to choose between having FUN and having DEPTH.

So we linked the two of our biggest passions and expertise: the intentional use of Psychedelics and Intimacy/Connection, in a safe and chill party vibe.

We created these events for people like us - and like you - who are done with shallow and want something deeper and more meaningful (while you also dance your ass off!)

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